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I need help with a dilemma: What does it mean to be American? And Why does it work?

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Thanks for all the comments, they have been very helpful.
I have sorted out my feeling on being American, it maybe a jumbled mess but it is working for me. And to avoid rehashing what has been said I’ll leave it at that.

But the large diversity of views here, and within America’s culture, politics, values, heritages, etc. I have to ask;

Why does it work?

By most standards we are a highly dysfunctional group, and should be a failed society.
But here we are a great nation, and by most logic that should not be the case.
Yes we are the home of the free and the brave, but also home of tyrants, cowards, passive, aggressive, moral and immoral and I could go on and on forever.

Americans are often labeled as racist and intolerant, if that was true we would not have more nationalities and different cultures than any other country in the world.
Being American is a lessen tolerance and that is something we can’t experience in heaven, but I feel the lessen goes deeper than that.


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Is American where you live, or is American a belief in freedom and liberty for all?

Firstly let me state I believe we are here to learn from experience that we can’t have in heaven. And recently I have had two events in my life that have me confused as to the lesion I should be learning from them.

My Background: I’m just an average lower-middleclass Midwest American.

Experience 1: I have been researching my ancestry for about a year now, and I feel pride with my findings. So far my ancestors range from English noble that came to America in 1633, to peasant framer and serving maid from Prussia (Germany) in 1820. No slave owners, only union army soldiers, fought for America in the war for independence, etc.

Experience 2: Many people throughout the world, now are fighting and/or protesting for freedom and libe

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    Jul 24 2013: What are the more recent American values that have spread worldwide?

    I’m no history expect, but I believe “leave no man behind” motto of the US marines, should be considered an American value. Correct me if I’m wrong but I believe it has spread worldwide.

    I hope there are others, but I’m drawing a black at the moment.
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      Jul 24 2013: .
      Question: What are the more recent American values that have spread worldwide?

      Answer: Celebrity: Keeping up with the Kardasian's.

      It's the American way of life to judge our value according to the stuff we own in relation to what others own around us. We don't honor many modest, selfless Mother Teresa / Nelson Mandela types.

      We export narcissism globally. Greed and envy are infectious.

      Leave no man behind? We do it everyday.

      Many people in America have disdain and anger towards the homeless and poor. They are considered "weak" and not worth saving.

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