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Lizanne Hennessey

Singer Songwriter & Vocal Coach, Lizanne Hennessey - Voice Coach

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When is the last time you did something for the first time?

Children do this every day. Adults tend to conform to routine, at the risk of missing opportunities to grow and learn. Why? Because trying something new means possibly making mistakes, failing, wasting time? It also means expanding horizons, fulfilling dreams, building confidence.

When is the last time you had on a completely new experience?
Regardless of size or importance, what was it, and what kind of effect did it have on you, or those around you?

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  • May 21 2013: This may not be what you are looking for, so I must explain.

    I have been thinking a lot lately about perception, and how everything we perceive involves choice.
    In the context of your question, I asked myself, how do we perceive a new a experience?
    Then I realized that I had a new experience when I awoke this morning, because it was a completely new day, with a different set of circumstances that is unique in my personal history. I am a day older, and I think I probably learned something yesterday that I did not know the day before.

    It is a simple fact that this was the first time I experienced awakening to May 21, 2013.

    So it is your choice as much as mine. When I awoke this morning, was that a new experience?

    When you start questioning your perceptions, old things can be perceived as new and different.
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      May 21 2013: Good point!!! So true Barry!!!
    • May 22 2013: I am looking for whatever you want to give me, Barry!!
      I agree completely with your view on this.
      Breaking routines and embracing a new day are so hard for most people, I think! Perhaps people feel security in routine? Is the fear of failure so immense, they don't dare to see a new day as a new beginning?
      All our lives, and the lives of billions of people before us, have led up to this very point in existence - that is pretty darn exciting to me. There is energy in that!
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      May 22 2013: The first time I am telling

      “ Oil is sitting quiet inside Pan, if you dip a fish with < Tapioca Strach > before deep-fried ”.


      ^Q^ smile ….

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