Sheikh Mohd. Aseem

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how one should know about himself??

actually for me the toughest question is when some ask me tell me about yourself??i just get confused and feel helpless..my mind starts to asking question from where should i start n what should i say about myself...so i'm always thinking of how can i know myself..how to explore me infront of people..its so difficult can anybody explain and advice me about this plz......

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    Apr 7 2011: Ask others around you about how they perceive you then ask self whether there is a match between others' perception and how do you see yourself. Look the events arround you in reality and virtually and follow what kind of spontaneous emotion or reaction comes with in yourself. May be these are couple of ways among many to help you out in your self searching journey.
    It's really a great journey. Keep up
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      Apr 7 2011: This is really intresting way and it looks easy to imagine a virtual world around you and then identifying who you are and its efficient too:)
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    Apr 7 2011: i would say if you feel confused about who you are,try start with finding out who you are not;).we have many different faces and i tend not to define myself by just one or two of them cuz that denies my potentiasl to grow as a person in various aspects. and ASK QUESTIONS ! like what you are doing here.
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    Apr 7 2011: I think that I have learned most about myself from my relationships with others and in times of stress and challenge. They say that just like a sponge- you see what's inside when the squeeze is on.
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    Apr 7 2011: Should i use same introduction everywhere to define me or it depends on situation, time, place???
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    Apr 7 2011: It is very difficult to know about oneself. It will take a lot of time. However it is worth exploring. Try to explore a lot of things and you will gradually know yourself and what you want from life.
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    Apr 7 2011: I think that knowing oneself is the most difficult but most fruitful thing a person can do.

    You will probably still be trying to define yourself when you are old and grey..
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    Apr 7 2011: for me thats simply, i tell one what i want them to know, since no matter how much you would try you would never know as well as you would know yourself. Likewise, i think its only fair to one self to not allow anyone person to know every aspect of themselve. More so, stranger your name and you general interests in more than enough
  • Apr 6 2011: Well, when people ask me about myself, I tell them that I'm an observer and a thinker. I like to take myself seriously at times, and I like to goof off at other times. I feel a deep respect for myself, every other man and woman I meet, every living creature I encounter, and all the matter and energy in this universe.

    Find yourself, if you don't know yourself, you cannot know anyone or anything else. When you know yourself, you will be able to sum it up pretty easily to those who ask.

    My advice to you would be to take some time to reflect on your role in this life, and what you want it to be.
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      Apr 7 2011: From my point of view i dont think so that it's easy to identify who you are?life is too long it takes years and years to know yourself. In life when you encounter any new situation you just discover something new about yourself and at that point you add something to your character. So it goes on and on. You said "you respect everyone" but this suits to everyone. Who don't want to respect others? That is just formal. But its good you know you're an observer and a thinker. Now that is what i want to discover in me.