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Ayla Ford

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Does everything that we do in life revolve around finding a mate?

Being a senior in high school, I have observed my actions and the actions of those around me and something interesting has caught my attention. From the very moment we wake till we go to sleep at night we are planning our lives around what appeals to the opposite sex. I was wondering can we move past our animalistic nature and be forward thinking on our own or are we always to be caught in the rut of companionship? I caught myself forming life goals around a man that I have yet to meet, my plans to travel have already been stifled by the notion that in my pursuit of world travel I might miss out on my "one true love."


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  • Apr 29 2013: You won't find your one true love sat in a box and waiting.

    Does everything revolve around a mate? That depends, in hindsight and in a loving relationship - it could easily seem that way.

    I would argue that there are individuals for whom 'finding a mate' isn't a concern, and would list Nikolai Tesla as a first example in this category.

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