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Ayla Ford

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Does everything that we do in life revolve around finding a mate?

Being a senior in high school, I have observed my actions and the actions of those around me and something interesting has caught my attention. From the very moment we wake till we go to sleep at night we are planning our lives around what appeals to the opposite sex. I was wondering can we move past our animalistic nature and be forward thinking on our own or are we always to be caught in the rut of companionship? I caught myself forming life goals around a man that I have yet to meet, my plans to travel have already been stifled by the notion that in my pursuit of world travel I might miss out on my "one true love."

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    Apr 28 2013: I think pretty much everyone becomes obsessed with finding their "one true love." It pretty much crosses everyone minds at some point in their lives. People form their lives around the thought of a person that they might not even have met yet. I'm not saying it's wrong to, it's just what comes naturally. Why do you think there's so many dating shows nowadays? People want to be loved and cherish and they don't want to wait for it. I don't think you have to search for it though. Things come naturally and you don't have to go out of your way to get it. Just be happy!

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