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Dyed All Hues

Thinker and Experimenter,


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Have you ever encountered a person who seeks your council, but does not even acknowledge your opinion?

This person asks for my advice, but they shoot down my opinion before they even hear me out. I feel they are extremely arrogant, but this individual is someone I look up to. I wish I could help, but I don't know how I can talk to them.

How have you dealt with these situations?


Closing Statement from Dyed All Hues

To know everything for certain without any doubt is impossible, but to continue to do, be, or change is the only way to figure this out.

I shall continue to do so and hope for the best.

Thank you all for participating.

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  • Feb 18 2013: From my understanding (limited) it seems that most people only want to hear advice from those they admire themselves. 'Typically' we acknowledge and seek the opinions of those who we wish to emulate.

    I agree with Fritzie though, most definitely.

    Edit: I should add that "admirable" is definitely contingent on the intricacies/variables of the circumstance.

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