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Telling others about your goals forces you to accomplish your goals.

Telling your support system like your family and friends about your personal goals will inspire someone to complete their goal. Having the support system set up is a motivating tool to succeed. For instance, a person wants to quit smoking so said person tells family and friends that quitting is a goal with a set date. The support system that was informed of the goal will most likely remind that person that quitting is a goal whenever they see that person smoking. Without telling anyone about the goal it would be very easy to just forget it and not feel any guilt for failing. With the support system in place that person will feel a greater satisfaction for completing it by a receiving appraise from them.

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  • Feb 14 2013: Yes James you are right I have read it some where that if you share your goal or ambition with 500 people you can get it, sharing in the sense not announcing that in a public forum you should share it with a passion and zeal . And the above example it not only works in the way you mentioned but it works the other wat around like if you share your goal of stopping smoking you will feel bad to smoke again because you already said them that you gonna stop smoking and if you still repeat it then it doesn't make any sense right...!!

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