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Arkady Grudzinsky


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If this were the last day of your life, how would you spend it?

It just occurred to me today that finishing my most urgent project at work wouldn't be on my to do list. I would love to read some thoughts or stories.

...After reading some responses, it seems that most people would do what they always wanted to do and take care of things that they value most. But why wouldn't we do these things in the first place, regardless of how long we have left? I don't mean it as a rhetorical question - it would be interesting to read some thoughts.

Topics: Values

Closing Statement from Arkady Grudzinsky

I'd like to thank everyone who participated in this conversation. Lots of interesting thoughts and perspectives.

Perhaps, most notable conclusions:

1. At the end, we focus on what matters most for us, and for most people it's people we love - most people would spend time with family, friends, write letters, etc.

2. It should not matter whether we live the last day of our life or not. Perhaps, we should just do what we do any other day, like having a cup of nice tea, and enjoy the moment.

It's hard to summarize everything that was said here - worth reading.

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    Jan 25 2013: Liz,You are quite right,we can never pay their so deep love back no matter how hard we try,and no matter how advanced techonology will make.

    Luckly,we are people who have realized how deeply our parents have loved us when they are living.
    We would not regret in our entire life.We would express our gratitude and love for them.

    Thank you for your regards.
    Our parents is great,thier love is great.

    Also send my warm regards to your parents.

    We should take good care of our parents.

    Wish our parents have a good health.

    :)the time is 22:47.
    Good night,our parents.
    Good night,Liz.

    • Jan 28 2013: Thank you, Frankey :)
      I hadn't read the thread before you mentioned you'd replied.

      They must be proud of you...
      Give my best regards to them

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        Jan 28 2013: Hi Liz
        I didn't reply on other's below about three times.
        I should be more familer of TED,also a friend.

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