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How is it possible to turn an argument into a mutually beneficial outcome?
when two involved parties are arguing, it seems to be over a disagreement where both sides of the argument want an outcome that conflicts with the opposition.
however, often both sides of the argument want the same outcome (ie. peace) and it is not a matter of getting there, it is a matter of how to get there.
how can ordinary people step in to offer advice, where needed, to create a mutually beneficial outcome for both sides of an argument?
does anyone have examples of a resolution where two sides of an argument were dealt with according to the desired goal for everyone involved? please share your experience.
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Farokh Shahabi Nezhad 10+
1. Both sides know on what an why they are arguing
2. Both sides accept that they can be wrong and the other can be right.
3. Don't seek winning but seek the solution
4. Follow the discussion very deep, it's very often that both sides answer themselves in discussion and they just don't know it.
griffin tucker 10+
all points are very valuable in solving an argument.