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How is it possible to turn an argument into a mutually beneficial outcome?

when two involved parties are arguing, it seems to be over a disagreement where both sides of the argument want an outcome that conflicts with the opposition.

however, often both sides of the argument want the same outcome (ie. peace) and it is not a matter of getting there, it is a matter of how to get there.

how can ordinary people step in to offer advice, where needed, to create a mutually beneficial outcome for both sides of an argument?

does anyone have examples of a resolution where two sides of an argument were dealt with according to the desired goal for everyone involved? please share your experience.

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  • Michael Froemmcke

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    Jan 21 2013: There is some sort of mystical idea and modern slogan being brandished around about the "win/win" situation. In many instances this is really just idle talk. Take arguments between staunch atheists and fervent believer in some divine authority. Unfortunately social success is being the winner. Competition is a sort of argument.
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      Jan 24 2013: "Competition is a sort of argument." - very important point! i haven't looked at competition like that before, but it makes a lot of sense.

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