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Are you satisfied with your life? Do you think its fair?

Simple question stated as above (ARE YOU SATISFIED WITH THIS WORLD)
other question

if you are not, what aren't you satisfied with?
if you are, what ARE you satisfied with?
If anything could happen what would you like to happen?
If everything could be changed, what would you like to change?

Im on the point of deciding what to do with my life


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  • Nov 18 2012: Life doesn’t necessarily need to be fair, and I can be satisfied with my life. If I think of my life as miserable, then, I would do anything to change the way I live while changing the way I perceive my life—by starting from little changes.
    My life is different from anybody else's, and so unique. And I suppose anyone can think of their lives as special like I do. It’s not just some kind of self hypnosis, but true, btw.
    Life is not always fascinating, but I get to taste all of its peculiar flavors that others can't even experience.
    Moreover, everyone’s life is unpredictable. No one can be sure about anything of my life.
    Life is not unfair.
    Thank God, I am neither smart nor wise enough not to make mistakes. I can always start over unless I'm pathologically obsessed with the past and my shortcomings.
    We all have this ability to name our past mistakes "experiences" as if that's what we were meant to go through with. Anyway we can try to look on the bright side of our lives whenever we happen to envy some people’s so-called “fortunate” lives.
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      Nov 19 2012: Hi Elizabeth!
      Nobody ever told me life was going to be "fair", and what the heck does "fair" mean? I agree...life is unpredictable, and for me, it's often about going along with the flow. We can look at, and evaluate how our life is unfolding, and making little changes as we go is generally beneficial:>)

      Elizabeth, in my humble opinion, you are both smart and wise:>)
      Did you receive my replies to your e-mails?
      • Nov 20 2012: Thank you Colleen :p

        Oh, no..
        I didn't receive your replies. I've been kinda waiting for your reply, btw lol
        Then, could you send me your replies again?
        I suppose some sort of error occured in the process of exchanging our emails through 'TEDcontact'

        Regards~ :)
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          Nov 20 2012: Dear Elizabeth,
          I replied to your e-mails and sent them 5 days ago! So sorry you have not received them:>(
          I just forwarded them again through the TED system, and also sent you an e-mail through "TED contact", with my personal e-mail address. Unfortunately, the TED e-mail system is challenging at times.

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