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why we fall in love?

why we fall in love?
when we know this that we have to face lost in it or then y we struggle and why we suffer for it.do we love for our experience in life or to change our life? i was in love but i lost lassssss.i was in love with sssssssssssaaaaaaaaammmmmmm.he did not recognize me.i lost him he hurt me alot

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    Oct 15 2012: Why? There's no answer to that imho.
    "the heart has its reasons which reason knows nothing of". (Blaise Pascal, French philosopher). In my books, this is the best explanation that I've found so far.

    It's what we, humans, do in life. We fall in love and sometimes fall (out of) love. I fell in love several times, thinking (sorry: feeling) she was the One. Got married. Divorced. Fell in love again and then fell.

    The best way to cope with love when love hurts is to learn more about yourself and love yourself. Falling in love will happen again. I strongly believe that people feeling good about who they are and being happy with what they do kind of radiates and attracts the attention of people.

    If it hurts losing someone you love, you will be able to enjoy even more the next relationship, don't worry.

    Last but not least, here is a quote by Churchill: 'if you're going through hell, keep on going". One day you will wake up and feel this lost love no longer hurts and you will be ready again to fall in love.
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      Oct 15 2012: lolz
      you are at some point rite but it is impossible to forget love on the other side you made me hopeful as well
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        Oct 16 2012: Hi
        perhaps it is impossible to forget for the moment, but just for now. One day...!

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