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why we fall in love?

why we fall in love?
when we know this that we have to face lost in it or then y we struggle and why we suffer for it.do we love for our experience in life or to change our life? i was in love but i lost lassssss.i was in love with sssssssssssaaaaaaaaammmmmmm.he did not recognize me.i lost him he hurt me alot

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    Osama Qayyum

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    Oct 13 2012: Because we don't know how to "stand" in love.. be firm.. rather people become delusional, emotional enough, rational thinking process his overwhelmed by that feeling...Actual meaning of relationship is subsided...

    Distinguish between attraction and love.. sometimes you are in the moment and feel it as love and when you pull out of it, you realize..

    Anyway, being more rational and mature is the way to go, i think..just a share, don't know anything really, coz haven't been through this wreck..
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      fareedun hocane

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      Oct 13 2012: emotions man cant be control first of all.
      love can only identified by a person who know what is love .love has not meaning of ditch or cheat it has not the meaning of to hurt some one.some people get their achievements in love by forgetting this that they are hurting someone.
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        Osama Qayyum

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        Oct 14 2012: well, its a complicated subject...learn something from the past and be mature next time
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          fareedun hocane

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          Oct 14 2012: hi osama
          i learn from past then,when i have any experience of love in past my love is first time in my life so what can i learn from past nothing.
          love is not complicated thing it makes our lives complicated after the lose in love which i faced
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        Osama Qayyum

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        Oct 15 2012: subject as a whole, involving relationship, is complicated.. actually its up to people themselves, how complicated they make it..

        about experience, i don't know what happened with your relationship, but it seems you have faced something terrible.. NEXT time, be careful
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          fareedun hocane

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          Oct 15 2012: hi osama
          ya i got lesson in my life but i am still alas that how much i was sincered in love
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          fareedun hocane

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          Oct 15 2012: osama i dont knw how can i forget him please guide me if you can tell
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        Noveed Hussain

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        Oct 15 2012: Same story and quetions are here b
        ut still living a happy life although sometimes it hurts a lot but I know how to handle this situation.
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        Noveed Hussain

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        Oct 16 2012: I am extremely SORRY but it is personal I can not share it publicly because I do not want to tell a lie or in three lines that I did volunteer work or things like this because these things wont help you.

        Sorry again

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