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Peter Grabas

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Are one of the reason that more people who are tall -or large- are more successful than not due to primal reasons?

It occurs to me that one of the reason that more people who are tall or large, are more successful than not are subject to primal reasons. Size and expansiveness are subconsciously motivating or de-motivating us in primal ways to succeed or to acquiesce.

If you are short, what were your experiences with success and dominance?
The same question if you are tall, what were your experiences with success and dominance?.

If you are tall or large have you found this to be an asset or a liability with people's expectations or prejudices toward you? The same question if you are short.

People of average height and girth, did you experience or observe any of these preconceptions, expectations or prejudice?

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    Oct 9 2012: The "pride" pose that Amy Cuddy descirbed, is one that after many years, my husband discovered was a universal toddler attractant. That is, my husband could raise his arms and give an open-mouthed smile to a toddler, (stranger) and get immediate recognition. It often caused the child to run towards him in delight, sometimes alarming the child's parents as their child dashed off affectionately towards a complete stranger. What more fundamental roll of a leader to draw in even the children! Since he loved toddlers, he enjoyed this 'game' immensely and some parents were simply charmed at the friendliness of their child. Try the pose and I'd guess you'll get the same response. Please use responsibly.
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      Oct 9 2012: lol I think I'll give it a try at the singles bar this weekend and see what happens!

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