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How will body language help my fear of failure?

Women, in general, are risk averse - as pointed out by Amy Cuddy. How would body language help us take more risks and pursue our dreams.


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    Oct 6 2012: It will not. In meetings and especially during interviews if I read only body language very few peiople would be employed. I stand with my hands on my hips (typical Air Force), my minister sits with his arms crossed and legs crossed, signals can be misleading. Please do not feel as though the ultimate solution rests in body language. When I talk to someone I try to put them at ease, look into their eyes, and give feedback that says I am interested in what you have to say. After a few minutes we get past all the BS and begin to communicate.

    You have no bio so I cannot give any specifics .... In many countries women are at a distinct disadvantage, however, I am of the opinion that the cream will rise to the top. I try to hire the best qualified not on racial quotas, union demands, sex balances, etc ... those things tick me off.

    If all it took was body language ... hookers would rule the world.

    Have faith in who you are and your talents.

    All the best. Bob.
    • Oct 6 2012: Qualitized the conversation. It is not the whole that makes this conversation, it is the parts that are Experientially learned that bring about confidence. Faith with no action is stagnant. Correct awareness, attitude, effort brings about understanding. To the learn the actions that bring about the right results will always overcome faith in false beliefs

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