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Derek Young

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What is the fine line that seperates self-respect and narcissism?

How much can you respect/love yourself before it becomes narcissism?

I know that narcissism is someone who is completely self centered and would marry themselves if they could.

To me self-respect is someone who is confident in themselves and caring of others, whereas narcissism disregards everyone else.

My descriptions are the extremes or polars for both self-respect and narcissism.

Where would you see yourself along the spectrum of self-respect and narcissism (assuming you capacitate either of the facets in your personality)?

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    David Hamilton 50+

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    Aug 9 2012: Sense of humor : )

    If you have issues with narcissism, and over confidence, let that be evident, admit that as a flaw, and make fun of yourself for it. In doing so you open yourself up to criticism.
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      James Zhang 30+

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      Aug 9 2012: hmm I ran out of likes for you, thought you should know that :)

      That said, I know some really hilarious narcissist guys.

      They be like
      "Damn I'm so freaking pro and badass, I'm too good at this game"
      *makes a mistake and kicks self for doing it*
      "FML this game sucks!"

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