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Is it really necessary to become attached to people? Do not we still finish to be disappointed?

I would like to know that people think about bonds of friendship or love because I find that in the life, we are too often disappointed by certain persons whom we trusted. So I ask you to tell your experiences, and tell me if that is always worth relying on the others or not.

Topics: friendship love

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  • Jul 12 2012: Hey Sarah,

    One who truly wants to evolve himself in life would have to get attached with others. You are correct, it is a risk, and we will certainly get hurt at some point. But just like any other domain in life, the more you practice, the better you get. Look at it that way; a baby who wouldn't try to crawl, walk or eat by himself, etc, wouldn't be developed physically. This is exactly the same; open yourself to people, embrace the experience, the feelings that come up, embrace those that you consider as negative too, it's OK, you will end up much stronger, I'm sure!


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