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New Zealand legalizing same sex marriage, and gay adoption.

Hey, I found out recently that my country, New Zealand, doesn't allow gay people to marry! I seriously thought that it was, but now I am disappointed and ashamed of my country. I am proud to be a New Zealander, proud to say that I belong to a modern, forward thinking nation (of course, I am very aware that New Zealand is very far from perfect, but allow me my patriotism) - like I am proud to say that I am Christian. I am straight, but I see the unimaginable pain that homophobic attitudes cause and I completely, 100% support gay marriage and adoption. Maybe I was naieve to assume that my fellow kiwi's felt the same way. We were the first country to give women the vote - why can't we be so proactive in our support for gay people? Surely the contribution that they have made to society and the stigma they have endured must be recognized: I want gay marriage and adoption legalized! Hey, NZ (and other teens) who's with me?
By the way - on gay adoption - gay parents have been proven to be just as capable - or incapable - of bringing up kids as straights. If you are worrying about the kids psychological welfare, the only harm that I can see coming in that respect is from the outside society: and if so, shouldn't we be working to change society, not limit the rights of our brothers and sisters?


Closing Statement from Geileis O'Kelly

Ok, hey, so because I didn't reply to you guys in time, I'm going to do so now. :)
Random chance 10+ - you go, dude. :)
Hey Steve Burgess? I know, and yeah, I've noticed that there is more of a phobia against guys for some reason, but it is improving. I mean, I was in Religious Educationt the other day - first I heard the populars celebrating that gay marriage might be made legal - !! - then I heard my teacher - for Religious education - agree with them, and say that she didn't knwo anyone who didn't. So, there's definitely hope. :) Despite one girl I had an argument with a a few days ago on the topic. grrr....anyways. Thank you for that! That's sweet. :) I'm not alone. Far from it.
Debra Smith - Isn't that what I was saying? i'm ashamed because we're not there yet. :)

Anyway, it is good to know that other New zealanders share my opinion, and that there are laws going through. John D, you're awesome. Thank you guys for all your contributions. I wish I could make the time longer. :)

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  • Jun 27 2012: Quote:
    "shouldn't we be working to change society, not limit the rights of our brothers and sisters?"

    YES, emphatically yes. Humans have been fighting for their freedom since day one and here it is 2012 and we still have to do so. If we were simply told the truth, as we have been told we were, then why do we still seek the truth?

    Because we intuitively know we have been lied to, about just about everything and this is just another lie that is high on the list of sexual lies.

    And by the way, these Envy apples from New Zealand that I have been eating, are delicious. And all this time I had been believing that eating an apple would make me ashamed. Of something.
    • Jul 1 2012: Thank you for your support! :)

      I know. I just wish people would stop being so damn scared of what they don't understand and just watch, research and try to put themselves in other's shoes before they opened their mouths. They cause so much pain, I don;t think people realize.

      Well, thanks! I'll take the credit for the apple companies....despite the fact I had nothing to do with it...XD

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