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Aneesah Bakker

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When we think we have no options, can we change our perception? Does having options make us happier?

Like with "everything", so too there "is" a paradox of choice.

1. Are we happier when we think we have a choice?
2. What if circumstances are such that there "are" no choices, e.g. during the holocaust. Lessons learned indicate that perceiving a choice in such circumstances can create "happiness".
3. Can too much choice, create unhappiness?
4. Are there different types of choices?
5. Whose responsibility is it to change our perception?
6. In any given situation, would you try to change the circumstances before you try to change your perspective?
7. Can the economics of happiness be separated from the economics of things/consumerism?

A related ted talk on the Ted radio hour is the talk by Barry Schwartz: Does Having Options Make Us Happier:
http://www.npr.org/2012/05/04/151879693/does-having-options-make-us-happier

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Topics: choice happiness options paradox perception responsibility
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  • Kashaf Mamoon

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    May 7 2012: Yes having option makes all humans happier but the thing is when we doesnt have option that doesnt mean that we should change our perception ........... i will say we should carry with that and find that for what we are working and their we should not search for option if we are much passionate about it.
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      Aneesah Bakker

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      May 7 2012: Kashaf, if I understand you correctly, I think you are referring to following our dreams.

      Over the years, when someone tells me that what I want to do is "impossible", like do 3 majors, I become even more determined to show that it can be done! My passion for human potential makes me want to transcend all limits!

      In the same way, I believe we have a potential for great happiness no matter what the circumstance!

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