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Why are humans never content?

All of us want more. But why, even if we have it all, a loving a family, a beautiful home and well paid job, what more could we want? But of course there is always that shiny new car or a higher paid job or even that younger better looking spouse.
We are (almost) without doubt super intelligent beings. So how is it that we are incapable of being 100% satisfied with our lives.
Not that this is necessarily a bad thing because it is probably the very same discontent feelings that has enabled us to evolve into this advanced animal lying at the top of the food chain looking down on the rest through the lens of an iphone camera.
Conversely there are some who supposedly have been 100% content with their lives. Though i am rather sceptical, I am referring to those who have reached the state of enlightenment, like the buddha or maybe even the Dalai Lama. But is this state of mind (all though desirable) even possible? I don't think anyone can resist the sweet temptation of wanting some form of improvement to their world.
Maybe these "enlightened folk" have just wholly accepted the fact that you will never be completely satisfied. In other words to be content with never being Content, that is about as close as i can interpret the fantasy of enlightenment. But i'm just not content with that.


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  • May 4 2012: Contentment occurs in the moment where you recognize and appreciate everything you have and have accomplished. When you step outside of the moment you are in the past or future, and you may feel regret for what you have done, or not done.

    Colleen talks of living in the moment also. Live in the moment, set the intention of what you desire, release the past, and let your life unfold in front of you. There is an intelligence far greater than our IQ, a bigger picture if you will. Tap into this intelligence by living in the moment and you will be guided into a fabulous future, one step at a time. And as Colleen also stated, YOU CAN MAKE CHOICES!

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