- AbdelRahman Siddig
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What is the most painful lesson you experienced and you wish other people to avoid your experience
Some people when came a cross painfull experience they wish every one in the face of the Earth get the same level of pain
other people they wish all other people to avoid such pain
The Question is
What is the most painful lesson you experienced and you wish other people to avoid your experience?
what did you learned?
and what people should to avoid the same situation?
Closing Statement from AbdelRahman Siddig
We can not avoid the feeling of pain it good feeling if we know how to use it
and as the wisdom says " there is hiden treasure buried inside each tragedy"
but we can learn from each other mistakes and save time and efforts
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Chris Kelly 20+
Pain is also part of the human condition which each of us must experience, as it builds empathy within us. We need empathy so we can help other's through their pain, because there's no avoiding it.
AbdelRahman Siddig
I agree with you pain is the greatest chance for grow and build a strong character but many people fail when they are in pain
but this conversation is not about to avoid the feeling of pain we can not escape that
but to avoid hard time by learning from each other
as most of life events are a like
just the story of Adriana Bevacqua in this conversation we learned a lot from it
Chris Kelly 20+
Adriana's heartwarming story doesn't compel me to put my knives away.
What her story does is affirm for me that although each of us suffer some kind of pain in our lives, we have the ability to use it to our advantage. Rather than run from it, or try to hide from it or fear it ... be comforted in knowing we can use it to transform ourselves.
By sharing her story, Adriana has shown that the pain she suffered did not defeat her, it made her a stronger and smarter person.
Adriana is a prime example of how a human can be an alchemist, by taking something like this horrible experience and transforming it into something beautiful, such as the grace she exhibits despite the pain she endured.
Her story is not one of fear, but one of triumph. This is true heroism.
Hers is an inspiring story and I'd take it over any of these TEDtalks.
AbdelRahman Siddig
what you said is so amazing but its very hard to achive
" how a human can be an alchemist, by taking something like this horrible experience and transforming it into something beautiful"
we all know that but when the real pain hit us during our daily routine the response is different
we do not jump up like we win a price and say WOW I got my chance of growth
deep in our hearts we wish if that event never happened
I remeber one wise man said we can not change the events but we can change the meaning of the events
why I'm blind and I can not see maybe harness the power of thinking and imaginations nd focus
Adriana Bevacqua
thank you for your kind words :D. My life has been a tough one, but I know many stories out there just like mine or worst. I am just another person.
Once that situation happened to me, I was more incline to learn from other people. Many of us believe we are untouchable or "that won't happen to me" syndrome. I learned at an early age, "that could happen to me".
I like to grow, and so I know I have to feel pain. That is what I think makes me change bad into good. I accept pain. I am not afraid to feel pain. I know and believe its a part of a process and can become a resource.
I think my entire life is a work in progress. With all due respect Chris, I am no hero. Hero's are protectors of the world. I don't feel like I did much, I just got over an emotional issue, and it all paned out. But thank you big time for the props, It fed my ego for the year ;D
Adriana Bevacqua