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Is it not absolutely natural to watch one's facial expressions, body posture, natural body qualities - the whole compound of them all?

Watching 'Nadia Al-Sakkaf: See Yemen through my eyes' and reading comments, discussions below the video, I decided to ask some questions to get some replies from the ones who probably are way more competent in some fields than me.
I just want to add that I do not want to offend anybody, I live where headscarves, hijabs, nijabs, etc. are not worn and to me occurred some very natural questions.
When we talk about all that headscarf-matter we probably talk more about the cultural matters, but I would like to watch at this from the nature-side.
So, is it not fundamentally natural to observe people's faces and bodies to perceive all the nonverbal information? To protect yourself, to be sure if it's not a lie, to understand the feelings better, to understand if a person suits you for a close friendship, cooperation, etc.
Another point which may sound not very attractively, but, again: is it not natural to 'search' for a life partner almost by all of the senses? Estimate him/her visually, by the scent (not perfumes, but some natural 'perfumes', for example, pheromones), also, even by touching. Of course, all the 'conclusion making' of all 'parameters' is probably more on the unconscious mind.
But this conclusion making (men on women), and in fact, taking 'the parameters' into 'consideration' is not allowed by hijabs, burcas etc.
Does this natural research of a partner is not valuable? To spend most of the time and create a family with the one, who would be 'accepted' on the unconscious level (the set of genes is acceptable), to be sure that the temperament is acceptable and so on.
I would like to hear those people who say that headscarves and others are cultural, moral or some other matter, and who find the counterarguments to all arguments of those who think about them with a controversy.
Addition: is it possible to get enough of vitamin D wearing this kind of clothes?


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    Apr 11 2012: Julija,
    Hijabs and Burqas have gracefully rendered an identity over the years to people/group who use it. Yes, i agree that when we are talking of globalised world , these headgear pose a lot of inconvenience to both quarters, still we have to respect our bretherens' practices. Talking about facial expressions, people have been misled even by those who do not use any kind of headgear. So, every individual have to be alert and cautious and use his own wisdom at every point of his life.
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      Apr 29 2012: Hello Leena,
      "Hijabs and Burqas have gracefully rendered an identity over the years to people/group who use it" - why then a tourist woman, for example, has to were a headscarf (and to be sure of the right length of sleeves and trousers)? I don't know about India, I suppose it's not necessary there, or it depends on a region, but, for example, in Iran it's necessary. So, I do not get the point here.

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